Navigating Food During the Holiday Season
For most, the holiday season is filled with joy, family, traditions, and of course food. It can be a time of connection, relationship building, and gratitude. Stores are filled with different types of colors, scents, music, and offerings. Generally, the holidays are viewed with optimism but for those with an eating disorder or complex family dynamics (especially that which involves food), the holidays can be nothing short of a nightmare.
Many people with an eating disorder, in addition to those working on healing a relationship with food and body, find themselves face to face with the source of their behaviors (food) and for some the source of their triggers (family). So how does one seek to enjoy the holiday for its deeper meaning and purpose while also maintaining commitment to the recovery process? In this post we hope to offer some support for navigating and enjoying the holiday season.
Start with reflecting on positive memories/traditions
Ask yourself: What did you like about the holiday? Are there any specific practices, games, locations, etc. that have made the holiday very memorable? Why are you celebrating this holiday - what does it mean to you? In terms of food, what have you enjoyed? Did you/do you like to partake in the cooking? Is there someone special who has always prepared your favorite dish? Reflecting on fond memories can help prepare our hearts for the holiday.
Finally, stay true to yourself and your position on recovery. If other people choose to diet around us, that’s their prerogative. We are showing up with the desire and responsibility to nourish ourselves adequately and appropriately, prioritizing nourishment and our well-being. Savor the flavors of all the delicious food, enjoying and showing gratitude, and honoring the place we are at now with food and our bodies.
Happy Holidays from As You Are Nutrition!